Making the Big Decision

“Am I ready for this?”

This is the question that teens are faced with when the topic of sex comes up in a conversation. While it is true that sex is a part of life, making a decision on whether or not you’re going to engage in it at a young age should not be taken lightly.

When you’re at a point in your relationship when sex gets brought up, you should take a step back and consider all possible consequences that can come from engaging in it at a young age.

If you find yourself in a predicament of having to decide whether to engage in sex or not, consider two things:  (1) reasons and; (2) consequences.

• Do you think that you’re ready to have sex with someone at such a young age, considering that the other person may or may not be the right one for you?
• Do you think that the person you’re with now is worthy of such intimacy?  Are you willing to surrender and share a part of yourself with this person without any hint of discomfort or pressure?
• What are the reasons have sex with them?  Were you pressured by this person?  Do you feel peer pressure because you’re the only virgin left in your circle of friends?  Do you need to conform to what’s the “in” thing in today’s generation?

Strongly consider the questions above when deciding whether or not to engage in sex. Peer pressure is not a valid reason to engage in any sexual activity and don’t let yourself be carried away or influenced by other’s choices and actions.

By saying “no” to this situation, you’re making the big decision.  You’re saving yourself from getting prematurely hurt or emotionally abused.  Always remember that only you can decide what you want to do with your body.  Everyone has their own opinions and beliefs, and your actions should not be influenced by other people’s thoughts and judgments. Make this decision yours and make it wisely.